It is well known that “psychopaths – those with a psychological disorder that antagonize others and society,” do not succeed in relationships. There is an absence of emotional connection with them and they do not have any real feeling of empathy. They are simply not worthy of trust or for someone else to depend on them. And when you talk to them and rate them, as you did, it feels like you are talking to a piece of ice. Despite their involvement in the sexual process and all other forms of relationship, their experience of sex is completely different from those of their non-psychologically disturbed peers.
Let’s start by showing some of the annoying qualities of a psychopath: According to a questionnaire about introverted or antisocial personalities, psychopaths are characterized by aggression, self-confidence, impulsivity and varying anxiety. He may commit crimes, but he can also cause great harm to the lives of others without committing any crime that is punishable by law. Psychopathic qualities are very disturbing when applied to sex and relationships.
A psychopath does not consider sex a reciprocal emotional experience
Sex is meant to be an emotional and intimate experience. Listen to any famous song and you will know what I mean – the songs are about perfect and complete love, in which the two partners combine trust and love, and they have sex until dawn because they have a strong emotional connection. Quite simply, the psychopath will be the last person to have this extended and continuous communication. Their lives revolve around reaching their essential needs no matter what it will cost others.
And because they do not live in romantic relationships that experience mutual respect and independence, they do not have a healthy sex life either. Psychopaths are usually professionals at seducing and luring people to their bed, but the process is a complex game rather than an emotional and then sexual experience.
What excites psychopaths?
They are sexually stimulated by force. If having a sexual relationship with a woman means that she will trust them more or give them money, they will perform in the sexual relationship wonderfully. This was confirmed by some women who entered into relationships with psychopaths.
Like many of their behaviors, psychopaths are proficient in the art of performance. They are proficient in acting in so many aspects of their lives, more than we can imagine. They realize that the first impression and image others make of them can attract them. And they do the same when it comes to sex.
Dissolved behavior and multiple short relationships
Psychopaths engage in promiscuous sexual behavior or many relationships that last for a short time. Studies have found that they are primarily prone to illicit relationships rather than commitment and pledge ones.
They do not tend to have dissolved relationships because they love sex a lot. The issue is more related to satisfying their egos when they are rejected, or feeling powerful, and also to banishing their boredom so much. Also, sex with strangers usually makes them interact significantly with another person in the most extreme levels of intimacy and vulnerability. Psychopaths always have a goal, to have someone in a vulnerable position in front of them, and that allows them to benefit from the matter. If someone were alone, he might be susceptible to the sexual characteristics of psychopaths – even if they feel that this new person seems strange, and they convince themselves that this person looks very good and their feeling will not be real.
Psychopaths in bars, restaurants, or any other social setting
Bars and restaurants filled with happy hours are popular places where psychopaths search for connection. With alcohol, men and women are easy victims of these patients and their meticulous math. Psychopaths can be spotted through several signs: recklessness, courtship by force, or seeking sympathy, and asking very specific questions very early on in order to identify emotional weaknesses in the person they are targeting, and they call their victims when they are in loneliness, despair, or emotional loss.
Ditching emotional or sexual partners as if they were unimportant things
Usually, people stay in a relationship with psychopaths longer than they might admit because psychopaths have brainwashed them through a series of self-killing steps (it isolated them from family and friends, by criticizing them countless times). After the end of the relationship with a psychopath, it is usual for the other person to undergo psychotherapy, because they are devastated by the way they have been abandoned.
It is difficult for many to imagine someone’s ability to separate quickly and severely, but to recover after a relationship with a psychopath, it takes the victim to realize the great difference in the needs of these troubled people: their emotional needs are in order to maximize their self-image, not a relationship of sharing or reciprocity.
The most important thing is that a psychopath will never respect the feelings of his victim, especially when he is asked to take responsibility for his deception. In her book, The Sociopath Next Door – The Psycho in Front of the House, Marta Stout says, in general, people unconsciously believe that their presence in the world is greater than ours.
